It can be so hard to deal with people some times. People can ignore and disrespect you. They can choose to not follow directions, and affect others in a negative way. They can pour on the insults. It can be frustrating when others won’t listen. What do we do?
Whether it’s someone in authority or someone under our supervision, it doesn’t matter because the way we handle things is the same.
• First, we must choose to follow Jesus. Matthew 16:24 "Then Jesus said to His disciples, "If any of you wants to be My follower, you must turn from your selfish ways, take up your cross, and follow Me." We need to ask our self if the battle is worth waging and if so, why. Are we out for our own interest? Are we seeking God's will and plans? Are we choosing to build others up in this?
• Secondly, we need to remember that we are Christ ambassadors and people are watching us to see how we react. Of course we will mess up sometimes, but God has declared us holy and righteous. Are we taking up the cross with harsh or gentle words? Are we teaching with our actions? James 2:17 "So you see, faith by itself isn't enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless." So our declaration of Jesus as our Lord is to be demonstrated thru our words and actions. This is probably the most difficult thing to do as a follower of Jesus when hard times or difficult people come around. (I am still working on this.)
• Thirdly, we are to walk a life of love. Ephesians 5:1-2 "Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are His dear children. Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered Himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God." Sometimes we have not had great examples in our life of “living a life filled with love”. So thankfully Jesus gave us an example to show us the way to forgive, extend mercy and grace. We can look to the cross for the perfect form of love and God's Word will tell us truth about how to do it.
• Lastly, never stop praying. 1 Thessalonians 5:17-19 "Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you who belong to Christ Jesus. Do not stifle the Holy Spirit." We can have plans for our lives and plans for our kids. Things may not turn out the way we would like. It can be so hard to accept a different way. But God doesn't want us to stop praying for those we love and those we feel are our enemies. We are to keep on striving to love everyone, no matter the circumstances.
Colossians 3:14-15 "Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful."
Lord, I pray that we would remember to be on our knees, looking up at You to be our everything. Anything else will not fill us up or strengthen us the way you do. Please fill us with Your love and grace for all people.
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